Inside: 7 ways that I raise and teach my toddler Spanish as a nonnative Spanish speaker at home using the MLAH bilingual parenting approach.
Before I became a mother, I knew one thing for certain. My children were going to speak Spanish. Not only were they going to speak Spanish, Spanish was going to be their first language.
Today, I want to share seven tips on how I raise and teach my toddler Spanish as a nonnative speaker.
I hope these tips help you in your bilingual parenting journey. Don’t forget to follow me on Instagram for daily bilingual parenting tips and resources to teach your kids Spanish!
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Why do I want to raise my child in Spanish as a nonnative speaker?
Learning languages, Spanish in particular, has been my passion since Spanish 1 class my freshman year of high school.
Since then, I have traveled to many countries in Latin America, received my Bachelors and Masters in Spanish and Latin American studies, and currently, I work as a part-time freelance translator.
In 2011, I met my Salvadoran partner Carlos and the language became a full-time gig for me. Together we have grown to learn each other’s languages, but most importantly cultures.
From Carlos’ culture, I have learned to LOVE diverse food, this was huge for me because I was a rather picky eater.
- I have a new appreciation for Latin music.
- Learned how to dance— well sort of.
- Acquired new expressions, new behaviors, new values, and the list goes on and on.
- I have genuinely acculturated to this new lifestyle, and because of it, I feel more well-rounded, and I have grown as an individual.
- I want this for my son and my future children.
- Even though Lennox was born in the United States, I never want him to forget his Salvadoran roots.
Since Lennox was born, I have done all I can in my power to make sure he speaks Spanish and learns his Papi’s culture. It hasn’t been easy, especially in times of frustration when I most want to express myself in my native language, but let me tell you this, it has been SO worth it.
(Update on 3/10/2021) At now almost four-years-old, Lennox is speaking mostly Spanish, and I have learned so much Spanish myself! Spanish I didn’t even realize I didn’t know! For example, nursery rhymes, onomatopoeia, shapes, among many more. It is fascinating, and that is my absolute motivation for writing this post.
Now you might be thinking, well he eventually needs to learn English, and don’t doubt it, he will because English is everywhere. It is on the T.V., my family only speaks English, and in September 2019 he will start preschool so he will learn it there as well.
Also, he is an absolute clown, and he is the one telling ME to speak in Spanish. Check out his bayucadas no our Instagram page where we post daily!)
Lennox will know very well that in our house, or with Mami or Papi, he will speak in Spanish only.
I know too many people of Latino descent that let Spanish slip away from their children and it truly makes me so sad. Not only should they be proud of their culture and want their children to be bilingual, but also being bilingual is so beneficial for their children.
Benefits of Raising Bilingual Children
In her article, K. Lori Hanson, Ph.D. goes into the advantages bilingual children have. Her research shows that bilingual children:
- Have sharper brain function.
- Have stronger listening skills.
- Are more creative.
- Have a leg up in the future workplace.
- Are better problem solvers.
- Are more open-minded.
- Will gain new perspectives.
- Have expanded social opportunities.
- Form bonds with extended family.
- Can more easily learn another language.
- Will most likely raise bilingual kids.
I want Lennox to have all of these advantages, and there is no better way to do so then to teach him while he’s young. Research shows that “the best time to learn a new language is between birth and age 7.” That’s why I want Lennox to get a great foundation of Spanish first before being thrown out into the English-speaking world.
Below is a list of 7 ways that I am raising my toddler in Spanish as a nonnative speaker
1. ¡Español, español, español, all day long!
I mentioned earlier that since Lennox was born I only speak to him in Spanish. This is called the Minority Language at Home bilingual parenting approach.
This approach works for us, because Carlos speaks Spanish and I do too!
This is a lot easier when we are all together as a family as I have always spoken in Spanish with Carlos.
When it is just Lennox and me, it is a bit more difficult and oftentimes feels unnatural. Regardless I do it and over time it has gotten a lot easier. Practice makes perfect, they say.
Check out three other bilingual parenting methods below:
- One Person One Language Approach
- Mixed Language Strategy
- Time and Place Tips for Raising Bilingual Children
2. Constant communication
Not only do I only always talk to Lennox in Spanish, but I make sure I describe my actions when he is near me.
If I am doing the dishes, I talk to him about how I scrub the dishes. I open interactive dialogue with him so that he can learn the process and daily routines of life.
This is important to do with your children no matter what language you are teaching them. Children are sponges at this age and soak up everything you say to them.
This will also allow them to interact with daily chores and help them be more interested in fulfilling these chores when they are older.
3. Technology will not win
If I am going to put all of my efforts into speaking Spanish to Lennox, you best believe that all the technology is going to follow suit.
Now that we’re at toddler-tantrum-throwing-times, it is really hard to avoid technology because you know, that’s the only time you can sit down for a second, fold the laundry, check your phone, or anything else on your never-ending to-do list. You get my gist.
When we do use technology, it is always in Spanish. Here is a list of THE BEST YouTube channels in Spanish for Kids!
Netflix is another amazing resource because almost all of the kids shows have a Spanish audio option. I love showing Lennox the old 1950’s Disney movies and I love even more that they have Spanish voiceovers.
As for phones, Lennox is just starting to use my iPhone. I set my phone to Spanish so that when I download children’s apps, they are in Spanish.
Early on into my Spanish education, I used to listen to Spanish music all the time, it was one of the most influential ways that I learned Spanish outside of the classroom.
To understand what was being said, I would print out the lyrics and translate them into English.
Ever since then, Reggaeton, Cumbia, Bachata, Merengue, and so on, have taken over my headphones. Lennox loooooves music, Reggaeton more than I would like him to, but it is so cute to see him start to sing the words and move his hips. He sure does have Latino blood.
Look how he moves those hips!
Lennox has also learned a lot of Spanish and his Salvadoran roots through his food. Check out one of his favorite recipes here: Typical Latin American Shrimp Ceviche
5. Libros, libros y MÁS LIBROS!
I love reading to Lennox and I have spent a pretty penny on buying picture books in Spanish. However, I have gotten a lot of hand-me-down books that are in English. I still utilize these books, but I make up my own stories in Spanish and we talk about the pictures instead.
Our favorite book in Spanish is Diós te bendiga y buenas noches By Hanna C. Hall. The pictures are adorable, it talks about bedtime and it has a beautiful rhyme. We actually have turned it into a song that we sing before bed some nights. I would post a video of it but it’s quite embarrassing.
Looking for more books in Spanish, check out these selections of thematic picture books in Spanish!
We don’t have a lot of caretakers for Lennox but when we do, one of our requirements is that they speak Spanish so that Lennox can understand them and not become accustomed to speaking English.
7. Playmates and mommy groups
The same goes for playmates, and I am so happy that I have a lot of Spanish-speaking friends with children. Lennox especially benefits from the older kids who speak to him in Spanish since he is at the stage where he imitates everything.
I also know in my town, on the app Meetup, there are a lot of groups that have bilingual meetup sessions. I have not met up with these groups yet but I would love to one day. The library near me also has sessions for young children in Spanish. I have been meaning to check those out as well.
I hope you enjoyed my tips for how I raise Lennox speaking Spanish as a nonnative speaker.
For more tips of raising bilingual children, visit our bilingual parenting section of the blog!
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